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Helping men open up – one honest conversation at a time.
Most men don’t talk about what’s really going on – not their health, not their worries, not the stuff that sits heavy in the background. Say Something Circles were created to change that in the simplest, most human way: through real conversations between men who know each other.
These aren’t workshops, therapy sessions, or anything formal. They’re small, relaxed get-togethers – in a living room, a break room, a pub garden, a gym studio, wherever feels natural – where men can talk about life, pressure, stress, health, and the things we normally brush off.
And anyone can lead one. All you need is the willingness to bring a few men together and create the space for a good conversation.
Why Say Something Circles matter
A lot of men wait until things get bad before they speak up. They don’t want to make a fuss, feel awkward, or worry someone. But silence is often where problems grow – especially when it comes to health and mental wellbeing.
Say Something Circles help men:
A conversation won’t fix everything. But it can shift something. And sometimes, it’s the nudge someone needs to take action.
What’s inside the Say Something Circles kit?
We’ve made it as easy as possible to get started. Your free downloadable kit includes:
No pressure, no performance, no need to lead or be too structured. Just you, a few men, and some time to actually talk.
Who are Say Something Circles for?
Anyone who wants to bring a group of men together – whether that’s friends, colleagues, teammates, neighbours, or a mix. You don’t need experience or training. You just need to care enough to start the conversation.
When to run a Say Something Circle
Anytime. At home. At work. After a game. Before a night out. During lunch. On International Men’s Day. Or simply because you know a few people who could do with a breather and a real chat.
Download the full kit below and choose a time that works for you and your group. You can either download the different parts of the kit indivdually, or the full kit as a zip file.
Remember, start small. Keep it simple. And Say Something – because someone else might need that moment more than you know.
Download the full Say Something Circle kit (zip file)
> Download the Say Something Circle welcome overview (PDF)
> Download the Say Something Circle full guide (PDF)
> Download the Say Something Circle cheat sheet (PDF)
> Download the Say Something Circle starter script and opening lines (PDF)
> Download the hosting a Say Something Circle social media post V1 (PNG)
> Download the hosting a Say Something Circle social media post V2 (PNG)
> Download the Join the Conversation social media post V1 (PNG)
> Download the Join the Conversation social media post V2 (PNG)
> Download the we had a Say Something Circle social media post (PNG)
> Download the Say Something Circle social media captions and editable templates (PDF)